Externalization is a powerful tool in therapy. Externalizations helps the client(s) to see the problem-saturated description as external to or separate from them, thereby allowing them to talk about the problem In a non-blaming, nonjudgmental manner and to unite...
I have often been asked by colleagues and peers: Is Gottman Method Couples Therapy culturally-appropriate for Native Americans? Does it fit the cultural experience and reality of Native American couples? Having done Gottman Method Couples Therapy on the White Mountain...
Are all negative things equally corrosive in relationships? In his research, John Gottman identified four ways of interacting that are the best predictors of divorce. John Gottman calls them the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse. Like the the Four Horsemen of the Book...
This weekend I was in Seattle working as a rover therapist at an Art & Science of Love Workshop organized by the Gottman Institute. As I watched and assisted couples doing the exercises and interventions, I was reminded of what first attracted me to Gottman Method...
